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STOP, TAKE A DEEP BREATH IN AND LET IT OUT!

‘Hey! How are you doing?’
‘I am good. Everything is fine. I am happy with life.’
This, probably, is the standard conversation we have with people often. Deep within all of us know that we are not speaking the truth.
I notice teenagers these days with happy faces, but sadness in their eyes. Most of them are not happy with their lives. At the same time I hear adults commenting and I also read memes which say that a boy/girl who is hardly fifteen or sixteen, how would he/she know about sadness or as they say about ‘depression’.  
Well, we really don’t know what is happening in someone’s life. Maybe, the boy you find talkative is not allowed to utter a single word at home or express his feelings. Maybe, the girls who laughs a lot, according to you, cries the most in the middle of the night when nobody is watching her.
Guys! We are rushing too much in our lives, ain’t we? It’s a very simple phenomenon that when things get complicated in our live, we make them even more complicated by thinking about it day and night instead of simplifying it.
So, why not stop! Breathe in and let it out. Then, sit down, close our eyes and think about all that troubles us. Are those things so great that we cannot forget them or is it that we exaggerate too much? I personally believe that ‘LIFE DOESN’T MAKE US SAD, BUT WE DON’T TRY TO MAKE LIFE HAPPY!’
This post of mine may seem a little vague. But my main and only motive behind writing all this is that friends stay happy. I know there are many ups and downs in life, but that doesn’t mean we will stop trying. It is said right that ‘there is no use crying over spilt milk’. So, move on. Don’t hold on to those small petty things which sadden you. Hold on to those happy moments which are important in life.
STAY HAPPY! STAY BEAUTIFUL!
SANA
सना 

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  1. Unspoken Words8 January 2018 at 08:10

    I love it and my favorite part is when you see a person who talks to much it may be possible that he is not allowed to talk in home that much and also the one part the person who smiles alot cries at the middle of the night.. This post is so.... I don't know how to express...its beyond words!

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