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"REBEL WOMEN DESERVE TO GET RAPED"

Hello. Adab. Namaste.
So... I was scrolling through my instagram feed and going through my friends' stories. I saw an IGTV Video continuously being shared on everyone's stories. I was wondering what is it. I clicked it and opened the video. The title of the video said "REBEL WOMEN DESERVE TO GET RAPED", which made me quite curious to see what was it all about. The video was uploaded by a girl named Shivani Gupta. She was visiting a restaurant with her friends where a lady commented on her that if she's wearing a dress, men will ofcourse rape her.
I have no words to say after watching that video. I really don't understand the fact that how can women say something like this for other women.
After watching the video, some people may tell me or think that if someone has such a thinking then obviously its wrong, but what can we do. There's nothing to make such a havoc out of it.
But my dear friends, I would like to say that unless you dont speak up, unless you dont raise a strong voice, the situations can never be okay.
But the sad part is that although those girls were being body shamed, they did the same, directly or indirectly. The girls said aunty we have a body to flaunt what do you have. They said a few more things like this which also body shamed the aunty. The aunty was wrong but at the same time what the girls said was also very wrong.
I recorded the video through my screen recorder and wanted to share with you all. But blogger doesn't give me an option of sharing a video.
SANA
सना

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